Most of us search about the true love without knowing what it is. Also many of us do not know differences between Love and Sex. Our problem is we want to others love us and many of us do not want to love others really. Getting true love is in 2 steps I explain to you and first I say some differences between Love and Sex.
1- Love never expires but sex will finish. Realizing the sense between us and our lover is Love or Sex, is so easy and simple. Consider it, if our lover makes us suffered, we may have 2 acts against; Forgiveness or retaliation, if we forgive our lover always, it is love and if we do it sometimes or never, it is just sex between us. So we will separate soon.
2- Love is both in heart and mind but sex is just in heart, we can forget persons who had sex with, but not about someone who had love with and keep in our mind always.
3- In the love we try to satisfy our lover, but in sex we try to satisfy ourselves more.
4- For love, we refer to inside of our mind and our heart, but for sex we refer outside of us.
5- Love can combine with sex always, but sex will combine with love seldom. There are other differences but these are more important. Now we find true love in 2 steps.
1- In the first step we learn how we must love others without considering at relationship type. We go inside of our mind and clear it to accept a new person and we will sacrifice for. Also we go in deep of our heart and prepare it to release best sense and passion for other person. We try to forgive others always and have good feeling about. But it is one way love and is not enough. To complete it we must go ahead in second step.
2- In the second step we must teach to others, how they must love us. Many of people do not know how they must treat with us to satisfy us. We must teach them how they must treat us and what we expect them. We must say all things are in our mind and in our heart, because others do not know about our needs and we must declare it. After passing the 2 steps, we can get TRUE LOVE and we must just enjoy with it. The only way to complete the tow steps mentioned to reach the TRUE LOVE, is avoiding from 2 things, SELFISHNESS and VANITY. So if ready, let 's begin.